(I am on vacation this week. This is a reprint of an article from July, 2020 that seemed just as apropos today and because I am working especially hard on listening for my voice knowing that my readership includes a Pacific Northwest demographic that is both churches and spiritual but not religious.)
Over the years I have noticed that I often close my emails and letters with the closing signature line, “In trust…” It has been something that has evolved over time. Early in my ministry I most often closed with the words, “In Christ.” I liked this closing at the time. It felt inclusive for the people and community I was working with thirty years ago. Even though I knew that there was a measure of diversity in the congregations that I served, I felt like the final words “In Christ” reminded us that whether we were “Jew or Greek, slave or free, male and female” that we could still find our unity in the belief and language of being in Christ.
When I moved to a more rural area in my second call much of the community used “God Bless You” regardless of whether you were Christian or not. In the Presbyterian Church, however, I found that some members appreciated the salutation while others found it trite and so overused to be able to communicate much meaning. I began using the more general sounding “Blessings” as a way to connect with the “God Bless You” crowd and speak to those who wanted their spirituality without the perceived limits of God-talk.
I still use the “Blessings” language especially if my email or letter is specifically targeted to a Christian or religious audience. But more and more I am relying on the simple “In trust…” for most of my emails and letters. It seems to work for audiences that are specifically religious as well as audiences that are more secular or humanistic in nature. Trust is equally considered both a human value and a religious value.
But there is more to it and it has to do with the time in which we are living right now. It doesn’t matter whether one is a good pew-sitting Presbyterian or a happy-as-a-clam agnostic. We are all living in uncertain times. We are all in pilgrimage time. None of us, if we are honest with ourselves, has a clue about what life is going to look like in 12, 24, or 36 months.
Every time I sign off at the end of an email or a letter with the words “In trust…” I feel like I am speaking specifically to the time in which we are living and to the whole community. I feel like I am being a pastor not only to the church; I am being a pastor to the whole community. It was always how I imagined the pastorate should be—as much a voice to the community as a message to the church faithful.
This has been important to me. From the early years of ending my emails and letters with the closing, “In Christ” my attempt was to speak to as broad of an audience as possible. Over the years my closing line has evolved as our communities and churches have changed. “In Christ” eventually felt limiting as I moved from a part of the country that had a Christian majority to the Pacific Northwest where religious affiliation can’t be taken for granted. “God Bless You” felt the same way—too limiting if I was speaking to an audience beyond the church. Even the more general “Blessings” seemed slightly more inclusive, but it was still limited to a primarily religious audience.
I write this not to advocate for a particular signature line for you or for your churches. The thing about signature lines is that they are personal. What works for me may not work for you. What works in your community may not work in the community just a few miles down the road. The important thing is not the words, but our ability to connect with each other in meaningful ways. The important thing for me is to convey that whether we are more religiously inclined or secular-focused that we are all in this together. We travel this path as one community, one people.
I can’t promise or predict what the future will look like. But I can promise that I will walk with you, no matter who you are and what you believe.
I can promise that I will live my life in trust and walk with you into an unknown future.
I wished I had more for you right now. But trust is just going to have to be good enough…at least for now.
By Rev. Brian Heron, Presbyter for Vision and Mission, Presbytery of the Cascades
There is a tendency to underestimate the power of language and words. This is a very thoughtful and sincere opening of debate on the ways we address each other and the possible impact that has. I’m sure it can be extended beyond the ending of emails or letters. Thank you for your insight and provoking such consideration in ourselves.
Yes, Safar. Words do matter and I have been surprised at how much thought I have put in trying to find just the right words in my blogs and in my signature lines. Peace…Brian
I like to close with shalom
Nice. I have used that one at different periods as well. I like that it speaks to both the Christian and Jewish narrative and to a deeper quality of life.
It is enough for me. Beautiful.
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Yes, trust. This is the word I’ve had on a post it note on my computer for several months. Variations: trust the practice, trust the process. Or as you say, in trust. Or just trust.
I have never had anyone turn down my offer to pray for that person who is going through difficulties, be they health, financial, emotional or other. Many say “thank you” even if not believers. So, Blessings seems very appropriate, but In Trust
is interesting and I will need to think about what that means!